Malavika Eby provides an insider’s look at the types of stress that teens today face on a daily basis, and more importantly, healthy ways that they can meet these challenges... [The Gift That Keeps on Giving] is a much-needed book that all teens should read, and for any adults who are interested in really understanding the struggles of teens in the 21st century.
— Dr. Karen Bluth, Research professor at UNC Chapel Hill

Welcome to Teen Self-Compassion

Hi! My name is Malavika, and I’m a college student based in Swarthmore, PA.

Teen Self-Compassion is a site of resources, personal stories, and step-by-step frameworks designed to help you grow your abilities to:

  1. Remain resilient through social-emotional struggles

  2. Self-explore & solidify your core values

  3. Nurture healthy relationships

  4. Develop meaningful aspirations

  5. Cultivate a strong & stable sense of self-worth

All resources listed are free of cost to view and access.

(If you notice that any of the resources on this website is behind a paywall, kindly let me know through the contact form. Thank you!)

“My hope is to create & provide supportive + actionable frameworks for self-growth to as many teens as I can.”

My Story

Adolescence is hard enough as it is, without the extra pressure and terror of managing piling schoolwork, avoiding burnout, meeting people’s expectations, staying involved in numerous extracurriculars, maintaining a reasonable social life, eating healthy and working out, navigating college admissions, achieving work-life balance, and of course, if there’s any time left over, getting enough sleep too.

That’s crazy, isn’t it? How are we supposed to “do it all” in a sustainable way? Sure, we can pull an all-nighter here and there, spending time on extracurriculars and with friends over the day and studying over the night, but our bodies aren’t designed for that sort of merciless, non-stop grind.

Basic Positive Psychology

About My Book

Educational Resources

Mental & Emotional Support

Motivational, Academic & Career Support

Social, Relationship & Community Support

Listen to my latest interview about social-emotional education with EdCuration’s Kristi Hemingway!

Teen Wellbeing Projects & Events

  • Saahas-Taarika Youth Collaborative Video Project

    The Taarika Foundation and Saahas For Cause are jointly creating educational and engaging bite-sized videos explaining symptoms, causes, treatments and commonly spread myths about various mental health conditions (such as Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADHD, anxiety disorders and OCD).

  • Free Strength-Based Resilience Lessons Online

    “Research-based guides to cultivate strengths of heart, mind, and will.” Topics include Creativity, Social Intelligence, Self-control and Judgement, among others.

    The playbooks are created by the Character Lab, a nonprofit organization that connects researchers with educators to create greater knowledge about the conditions that lead to social, emotional, academic, and physical well-being for young people.”

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